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 Happy people work
success at work often depends on the size of their attitude towards work.
Was merely work as a means of livelihood, so they work mediocre.
Some people to work as were the cause of accomplishment, they can, they will have a heart too utilitarian, once encountered a setback, they are often devastated.
more people to work as a pleasure, they are often able to calmly face The success of the work and the pros and cons, it is precisely for this reason that they got more than others, opportunities and achievements.
fast pace of life in modern society, people are increasingly busy, physically and mentally is more and more nervous. If We do not have a philosophical mind, I am afraid all day is worry, depression, fear and other negative emotions and feelings of winding, One day, the body is reinforced steel frame will get sick. things both big and small are all at heart, are very concerned about , then we in the life and work will have many concerns, let go of hands and feet, capacity can not be due to play, and feel heavy-hearted, very happy.
fact of life in the hearts of many people find it difficult to lay down stone, whether their own or someone else picked up all over as a baby thrown together like holding, more heavy, until their overwhelmed, it can no longer collapsed.
Shanghai, according to the relevant body to investigate several hospital routine annual physical examination report, the Shanghai diseases among the elderly age of smaller, high-fat, high blood pressure, age of onset had dropped to more than 20 years of age. As fast pace of life, work too much pressure, More and more people in Shanghai more than 20 years old myocardial infarction that appeared in old age. All of these have told us that if anything does not fit the heart, we will only give yourself a lot of unnecessary pressure increases, thus losing the life and work of the fun, let their innocence to assume some unnecessary burden and pressure.
So many people do not feel happy life, work a lot of pressure because the mind is flooded with a lot of unnecessary trouble, pettiness, so feel sorry for the pain, a lot of pressure. one who wants to have a happy life, to experience the fun of the work, reaching concept is very necessary.
There was once a bag monk (he is said to Buddha's incarnation), said: can your heart at ease. to cultivate a broad mind to joy and the work would be done the following aspects:
1. accept the reality. to accept the reality of a person is happy. not to accept the reality, often make people to live, work pressure felt inexplicable fear and anxiety. can not face and accept the reality of people will often not act self-confident, self-blame, and depression. they think they have to what, for example, must be paid, must be praised. Once the desire to achieve can not be regret, disappointment, affecting work, life and even health. to accept the reality, is to admit that he is an ordinary person, there are advantages and disadvantages; be successful in life, there will be failure; just normal life to do something aggressive, face their own inadequacies, active efforts to catch up is the most important.
2. to accept and respect each other. working with people, there must be unity and harmony when , there are conflicts of time. a tolerant attitude to accept and respect each other, appreciate others, not harsh to ask each other, but more tolerant to each other. Everyone wants to get respect and fair treatment of others. Even his own colleagues, supervisors have some disadvantages, but also to calm manner. only tolerant of people around you, you can integrate into your team well, and we closely cooperate with the successful completion of given task. do this, the key is to listen, carefully communication, less criticism, do not blame and praise.
3. the pursuit of perfection. people are not happy because the work failed, and failed mostly because the work is not enough investment, the lack of a spirit of seeking the perfect job. When we work hard , positive thinking, the pursuit of perfection, when work will give us good returns. those who seek perfection are often able to do perfect work, but also from the joy of success.
4. a sense of responsibility and pay. Three people seek advice on how to non-German Master will happy. no virtue Zen Master asked: the love will be happy. have fun, love to be willing to sacrifice to be happy, have a reputation to be used to serve the public happy. that simple. responsible for the work will be responsible for you. for someone else to pay, others will pay for you. a sense of responsibility and pay for the work often can be obtained from the joy of success, from the people around them get recognition, respect and love. Therefore, they will be able to enjoy the happiness.
5. Thanksgiving fate. Thanksgiving destiny is to look at his life stride gains and losses. beyond their necessity can only expect to lose their initiative and become depressed. Thanksgiving fate is to learn to see more of their own achievements, drawing strength from success; is to address the failure, learn from the experience of failure. Only Thanksgiving to experience the fate of the work to be able to make their own happiness. you can take a similar approach to make yourself more experience Happy to work:
your current job well, and is getting better. For example, supervisors have also done very neatly in recognition of your statements.
your current job is not without a glimmer of hope. Although boss criticized the shortcomings you have a careless, but as long as you have corrected or approved access to superiors.
While your current salary is lower than the students, but still an increase over last year's 200.
Thanksgiving fate, destiny always express their gratitude. even if it is failed, but also from a positive point of view, this time failed, but no white pay tuition fees, he is still harvest some experience.